You expect me to stop agreeing to people wanting to spend time with me and have sex with me? Isn’t that the pinnacle of the human experience to want to love & be loved? But then they end up treating me like free disposable trash and he eats my food that I paid for, and that’s how everyone is today, and that is what I’m complaining about. Love & sex shouldn’t be booty calls & using each other, it should be love. But all anyone ever does is use me, I’m 50 years old now and I’m sick of this shit. I want love. I don’t want to be alone.
You expect me to stop agreeing to people wanting to spend time with me and have sex with me? […] and that’s how everyone is today
It really isn’t how everyone is, but it certainly sounds like all this guy is. Ditch the loser and find someone better. I hate to seem age-ist here, but you’re dating much younger and of course you’re getting immaturity in return.
Love & sex shouldn’t be booty calls & using each other, it should be love.
Love isn’t just about sex, but it is obviously a part of it. If all you’re getting is (what you describe as) bad sex that doesn’t even do anything for you, why are you still there? In your own words, this person isn’t meeting any of your needs… it’s clearly not what you’re after, but you seem to keep seeking and accepting it anyway. Why haven’t you moved on?
You expect me to stop agreeing to people wanting to spend time with me and have sex with me? Isn’t that the pinnacle of the human experience to want to love & be loved? But then they end up treating me like free disposable trash and he eats my food that I paid for, and that’s how everyone is today, and that is what I’m complaining about. Love & sex shouldn’t be booty calls & using each other, it should be love. But all anyone ever does is use me, I’m 50 years old now and I’m sick of this shit. I want love. I don’t want to be alone.
It really isn’t how everyone is, but it certainly sounds like all this guy is. Ditch the loser and find someone better. I hate to seem age-ist here, but you’re dating much younger and of course you’re getting immaturity in return.
Love isn’t just about sex, but it is obviously a part of it. If all you’re getting is (what you describe as) bad sex that doesn’t even do anything for you, why are you still there? In your own words, this person isn’t meeting any of your needs… it’s clearly not what you’re after, but you seem to keep seeking and accepting it anyway. Why haven’t you moved on?