i have not considered other genders for this thought experiment (mostly due to personal preference)
but for guys, i think it’s pretty tough to emotionally divorce yourself from the idea that your dick is supposed to completely satisfy your lover, even if it’s a physical trait that has no relation to who you are as a person
i have a lot of empathy for it. i mean, i am a guy, i’m just trans. but i do get it, on some level
i have not considered other genders for this thought experiment (mostly due to personal preference)
but for guys, i think it’s pretty tough to emotionally divorce yourself from the idea that your dick is supposed to completely satisfy your lover, even if it’s a physical trait that has no relation to who you are as a person
i have a lot of empathy for it. i mean, i am a guy, i’m just trans. but i do get it, on some level
Ah, okay. Thanks for explaining.
Yep, that seems likely due to conditioning. It’s not impossible, just difficult.
Ah, okay, thanks for explaining :)