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authenticity -> real and genuine
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autonomy -> seperate individual (not enmeshed)
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curiosity -> growth mindset and learning constantly
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growth -> improving functioning and increased awareness of change and adapting to new circumstances
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peace -> absence of conflict and abnegation of other people’s drama/entitlements
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pleasure -> enjoying or benefitting from the actions I take and consequences of those I maintain relationships with
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respect -> genuine care for recognizing and upholding other’s needs where it is safe and not incompatible with your own
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reciprocity -> balanced approach to give/take and being mutually-attentive to signs of imbalance
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safety -> avoiding things, people, places, situations that hurt you or cause you to be unable to enforce the protections you need to accomodate yourself in the context
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stabillity -> expectation of consistency and balance and sustainabillity in one’s relationship with anything/anyone.
These are sort of a rough outline of mine, how about yours Lemmings? Mine aren’t exhaustive but these are the core simplest profile I could break down. Feel free to steal anything and add to your collection ;)
Septimaeus@infosec.pub7·7 months ago