Was having this conversation with some new friends earlier and was curious. When did you guys figure out your sexuality/identity or whatever? Was there a person that helped you or a particular moment or event?

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    1 year ago

    the first female fictional character I remember thinking was hot was Franziska von Karma.

    Wow, that is a throwback. I now want to replay through every Phoenix Wright game.

    Uhhhh if anyone has resources for figuring out if you may be multigender

    The gender dysphoria bible was a pretty enlightening read when I was beginning my gender crisis. Don’t let the word bible influence you into taking it as gospel, no document is perfect, but it does a pretty thorough job of explaining the different feelings characteristic of trans and non-binary people.

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      1 year ago

      Wow, that link is something I wish I had when I was starting out 6 or so years ago. Reading through it with my partner right now, it does a great job of succinctly but comprehensively consolidating so many things that we had to pick up in bits and pieces over time.

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        1 year ago

        Agreed, but also curse that darn site for starting to make me question things a lot (in a good way though hehe)

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        1 year ago

        Just finished reading through it together, what an excellent resource. I especially liked and appreciated the explanations of gender euphoria and how it relates to gender dysphoria, one of the most thoughtful and clear articulations I’ve seen.