Trans guy here dealing with people constantly talking about me among other shit they’ve done because I’ve always lived in conservative areas. Even other queer people were awful especially gay and trans people.
I’m gonna move but I still won’t be able to afford top surgery yet. I’ve been back on T for a while so I pass for the most part. I wanna go stealth after the move but how can I go stealth in a big city without isolating myself as a straight guy?
You don’t necessarily have to go to a big city. Washington has several mid-size cities such as Bellingham or Olympia that are super trans friendly and the whole state has good recognition of and access to gender-affirming surgeries.