• Dharma Curious (he/him)@slrpnk.net
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    1 day ago

    Okay, do straight guys really feel like women don’t enjoy giving blowjobs? As Gay guy, most of the women I know say they enjoy giving them. Mostly it’s the jizz in their mouth that’s the problem, but that disappears (for precum anyway) with a committed relationship, as it’s mainly an ick/std factor. My experience is mostly the same. Sucking dick is fun, especially if you take the time to learn to deep throat. I’ve never understood this idea most straight guys have that women hate it when my, admittedly anecdotal, experience with women has been totally contrary to that

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      9 hours ago

      I’ve always been enthusiastic to do it for my man’s pleasure, but never enjoyed the act for it’s own sake. Also cum is like raw egg white and it really takes me out of an erotic story when the female characters are obsessed with consuming it. But to each, her own.

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      16 hours ago

      It’s been pretty hit or miss with the women I’ve been with. If I had to guess about 50% were okay with or liked doing it, the rest either didn’t like it or refused entirely. Which is fine if they’re not really into it it doesn’t do anything for me anyway.

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      1 day ago

      There is this notion going around that women in general enjoy sex less or want less of it. Which is nonsense. Maybe talk to your wife and learn what she likes, Richard.