How long do you last? Excluding foreplay.

No lame answers like “it varies”. If it varies, tell us how/why it varies and tell us a number anyway.

Heterosexual females/gay males, feel free to kiss and tell. Tell us how long your previous dudes have lasted.

Have fun with this thread. Discuss! :)

  • snake_case_guy@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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    1 year ago

    Have you tried using thicker condoms or numbing with cream? I also know of people that use breathing of meditation techniques for this. I’m no expert in the situation, but asking before you need to go through the knife.

    • JacksonHunter69420@lewy.worldEnglish
      3·
      1 year ago

      I did try different type of condoms. Creams not so much.

      I will look into the meditation part as I am sure it’s mental related issue.

      • snake_case_guy@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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        1 year ago

        I would also suggest you to go to a psychologist specialised in sex (a.k.a. sexologist), if you haven’t tried yet. What you are saying is a very common thing, and medicine has been working on this for years. We don’t have the final solution for it, but we do have many work arounds and if it’s something that is altering your life, you should try to fix it.

        My advices are going to be more sex-bro kind of thing. A trained physician or doctor will have better answers than me.