Whisper networks are only useful if you’re part of them though. They often exclude newcomers and actively allow them to get hurt, then blame them for doing so.

Warning for talk of S.A. etc:

Are We Dating The Same Guy | Digital Whisper Networks in the #MeToo Era by hoots 59 minutes and 46 seconds https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mZaWnQ9HXZA