• womjunru@lemmy.cafe
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    15 days ago

    I’d rather someone be rude to me than passive-aggressive. That’s way more uncivil.

    • ranandtoldthat@beehaw.org
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      15 days ago

      If that’s your personal preference, that’s fine. Just recognize that not everyone is OK with people being rude (or unfriendly, etc) to them.

      Beehaw is structured around that understanding (among others).

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          15 days ago

          Beehaw is nice on that they don’t tolerate faux-civility in any form. If you see a spate of of passive aggression, report it.

          It can be a bit easier to spot active aggression in rudeness, etc, but that doesn’t imply passive aggression is somehow “nice”.

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            14 days ago

            I disagree, and have recently been the victim of faux civility, gang abuse, mod abuse, bans for not accepting abuse, gaslighting, and overall hypocrisy.

            And we all know you can’t report mods or favored users. You just take the abuse and have multiple accounts. But that’s Lemmy in a nutshell 🤷‍♂️

            • ranandtoldthat@beehaw.org
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              14 days ago

              I’m sorry that happened. That is really unfortunate. If you share links I am willing to help report such behaviors on beehaw.

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                13 days ago

                It won’t matter. They’re a very prominent user and mod. We all know Lemmy is just a bunch of back scratching, nepotism, and power tripping bastards.