Yeah, we have been together a dozen years and have sex every day. I don’t understand complaining about your spouse, and my husband says the same. But we are old, I think it’s easier, you make better choices.

I will say I feel really lucky though, sex -wise, and don’t think it’s usual.

Sorry for the following sweeping generalization but: Mostly guys seem to say they want everyday or more until they find someone who does, then get upset if they aren’t the one with the higher sex drive. There’s a very strange subconscious assumption that it’s unfeminine or something. They feel better if they are the ones who want more than they are getting.