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minus-squareTeamAssimilation@infosec.publinkfedilinkarrow-up26·2 个月前I don’t think it’s instinct, but a calculated selfish decision. Will I profit from spending energy, time, and money in this person? If they die, it’s a net loss, so they bail. Instinct only tell us to go away in case the disease is contagious.
minus-squarenotsure@fedia.iolinkfedilinkarrow-up4arrow-down12·2 个月前…that is the definition of instinct, not only survival but profit…
minus-squarekrashmo@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up5·2 个月前This sort of transactional view of romantic relationships is exactly how incels are born
I don’t think it’s instinct, but a calculated selfish decision. Will I profit from spending energy, time, and money in this person? If they die, it’s a net loss, so they bail.
Instinct only tell us to go away in case the disease is contagious.
…that is the definition of instinct, not only survival but profit…
This sort of transactional view of romantic relationships is exactly how incels are born