MaybeALittleBitWeird

It’s not. I report this poster at least a dozen times a day for posting things that aren’t even remotely close to relevant to the community they post it in.

:o As long as there’s no blood! Gotta make sure you can be ready for use again as soon as possible ☺️

I should have known he’d need a fork to eat all that ass

What implement was used for those marks?

I may be mistaken, but if this is @sexmeat@lemmynsfw.com the least you could do is credit her given that she’s a regular poster on the instance.

Wait no longer 😍

Good to see your beautiful self again Allie, hope life has been treating you well!

You forgot to add the image or link! 😁

I love the aesthetic in this shot between your top, makeup, and glasses frames! You can suffocate me, but only a little bit…

What’s up with the hair coming out of her armpit?

Equally as classy in black and white as she is in color 😊

Your upload failed friend

Me neither, but it’s now my favorite 😁 I’ll call it the standing full supermoon position.

You’re not working with anything to be ashamed of. I actually love a well defined head. It’s so much fun to play with!

Welcome 🐴

Hey cutie 😏

That is just a lovely photo. The colors are really nicely done.

At things stage I largely comment on OC. Mostly just to encourage it to keep being posted because it’s pretty sparse at this point on this platform and gets drowned out by pic collectors. Commenting is the best way to keep visibility high, as I’m sure you’re aware.

Commenting on OC is easy because you can default to observation and flattery. Commenting on non-OC content is more difficult so you’ll always be at a disadvantage. I need to either have a photo deeply resonate with me or maybe a question on my end or very specific comment on an element that I appreciate.

For me, I have a long-term partner who is not very into exploring boundaries and likes to keep things simple. Because of this I really only have experience with simple restraints. If you post an artistic picture of a complex restraint, a lot of that subtlety will probably be lost on me even if I still can appreciate that it’s a cool thing I like that I cannot or will not ever do. It’s difficult to leave a comment about something that you don’t fully understand though and if my best reaction is “Cool!” I’m likely to just upvote and not say anything because I don’t feel I have anything of value to contribute.

If your goal is to interact with other people with a similar interest, my suggestion would be to leave a bit of information as to what attracted you to that specific image in the description. This gives someone an opportunity to connect and a bit of information to latch onto and comment on. Sellers use engagement-baits for a reason - they work. The community is small right now so I don’t know how many fish will bite, but it might increase your odds.

For what it’s worth, I almost always appreciate your posts! We have a lot of kink overlap and, funny enough, I don’t normally run into interesting ties in my day to day life 😆

Please fix your attitude

You’re right that the default sorting being local-active definitely doesn’t help. The new user experience for Lemmy in general has issues at its core unfortunately. Setting communities as default is an easy solution, but would have its own set of issues.

I don’t think it’s a bad solution to have defaults, but it would require pretty clear and heavy moderation, likely from admins themselves. This would also have the secondary effect of forcing admins to take a stance on what kind of content should primarily be on the instance. All of this also ignores how feasible something like that would be across all the varying apps and front ends, which I have no idea.