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Cake day: July 29th, 2023

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  • Please take this as gently as possible from someone old enough to be your mother - if you meet one asshole, they are an asshole. If everyone you meet is an asshole, you are the asshole. If you meet a girl who is stuck up, she probably is. If every girl you meet is stuck up, it’s you.

    If you think getting past the “virgin” part will crack a wall for you, then sure, a sex worker might be the way to go, you can explain what you are looking for, maybe get some pointers and practice so you feel not clueless. Most of us, yes women too, did not have ideal or even good first times, no big deal if you want to pay to get it out of the way.

    Your looks and style, the best approach is to get yourself in shape for you. Wear the clothes you like. Do the things you like, be your own best self. You absolutely do not need to be stunning in looks, no. But nice enough to be comfortably looked at. Comfortable for you and the one looking. Looks are only the superficial layer but being in shape at least does say something about you, that you care about your physical health.

    Beyond that - we are just people! Women are people and we are everywhere. Get used to talking to us like people, make friends, get more comfortable. You need girl friends, not just a girlfriend.

    Also I agree that 30s are the worst age to look for a partner, 20s are more open and then around 40 a lot of breakups and movement again. But that doesn’t mean impossible by a long shot. Always there are people looking, especially if you are wanting casual for now.



  • I am a (heterosexual) woman and the only porn I really like is D/s stuff. Threesomes if MFM or MMf (2 dom bi guys, one subby lady) But video is least favorite media. Written stories > pictures > video.

    In real life nothing is actually hotter than one on one, it’s the gold standard. Plain ol sex is great. Everything else is good but mostly because it makes that plain sex afterwards so hot. But power dynamics works best for fantasy, always has and I guess always will.

    The girl/girl stuff id imagine it’s because we believe the women are actually getting off, and it’s easier to buy in. I don’t enjoy it though, so can’t say for sure.