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Cake day: August 6th, 2026

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  • The problem is that social media algorithms thrive on engagement, and the fastest way to further that engagement is hate. Spending all day on the internet banging on about various fashionable causes, may make give a temporary endorphin boost, but does it actually change much except social media corps’ profit margins?

    OP has posted a reminder to not watch Harry Potter in a small internet forum for internet piracy. Will this affect JKR’s support of anti-trans groups in any discernible way?

    If you want to change the world, it’s arguably better to get off the internet, and spend time in your community making real tangible changes. If you spend too much time on the internet, it’s likely you’ll forsake the former. There are only so many hours in the day.

    It’s fundamentally not that different to replacing real social interaction, with ersatz social interaction on social media.

    e: To be clear, this comment won’t actually change anything either. I am just filling time.













  • Once again, sorry for being so strict, most people probably wouldn’t notice. You’re already dressing far smarter than most.

    On a related note, a male fashion PSA: if you go on a site like vinted, it’s still possible to find cheap second-hand clothes for men. Unlike women, most men dress like slobs and being fashionable matters less. Simply google posh but non-fashionable brands no one’s ever heard of, and buy yourself high quality clothes with a 95% discount.


  • Do you want advice?

    The tie pin appears to be off centre, the pin at the top of the tie is too much, the waist coat needs to be cleaned, your sleeves appear to be too long, the watch chain is IMHO too long and appears to be pulling the top button off centre, whatever you’re using to attach it to the bottom button is ugly, and unless you’re left-handed your pocket-watch should be in the left pocket so your dominant hand remains free while you’re looking at your watch.

    These are niggles, but IME formal wear is less forgiving. Not a bad look though.