Engaging is fine. They are right about a lot of people not wanting to see furry porn on All. its the hostility of how they started that irked me. I would have been more than happy to have a conversation with them about it.
Also as someone who moderates a few communities here as well I agree with a lot of what you said.
I hope it does too, I hope reaching out to them goes well! Also sorry about things getting a little heated in this thread earlier.