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Cake day: November 11th, 2024

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  • applebusch@lemmy.blahaj.zonetome_irl@lemmy.worldme irl
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    13 hours ago

    thats only true for people who give up and settle into a sedentary static life. im a 30 something and im healthier now than i was through most of my 20s, and having a lot more sex. i avoided changing anything meaningful about myself through most of my 20s. i didnt really start changing myself until a few years ago, but once i stopped living the way i thought people wanted me to and started living the way i wanted to and really being myself, things got way easier. ive learned more about myself and done more growing as a person in my 30s than most of the rest of my life put together. you can change yourself however you want. forget what other people think about it. dress the way you really want to dress. make your body the way you really want it to be. do the activities you really want to do and fucking own it. love yourself enough to give yourself what you really want. whatever it is some people will vibe with it. people have been telling you your whole life that confidence is all it takes to get laid and its true, but they never said the way to get that confidence is to be who you really want to be, unapologetically, so even if someone doesn’t like what you have you dont care, because you like what you have. i wish i could go back and tell myself that when i was 18 and staring down a sad and lonely 20s trying to be someone im not… maybe then they would have been some of my best years. its not like its easy, but you can do it, because being your real self is truly what you want.


  • applebusch@lemmy.blahaj.zonetome_irl@lemmy.worldme_irl
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    14 hours ago

    this is me eating a bunch of actually ripe peaches having a food orgasm like a sailor from the 1600s who just got back from a decade long sea voyage with nothing to eat but hard tack soaked in cold sea water. god damn i could go for a good peach right now.








  • I didn’t realize until I finally got one, but I fucking love tank tops. I never liked having my arms out before, but in a tank top it just feels so right. Since I started estrogen my arms have gotten much smaller so I feel even more confident in a tank top. They just work so well to feminize my upper body, even with my broad shoulders, and I get to show off my itty bitties a little without being too flamboyant. I have one super basic black cami I wear constantly, and another super well fitting satin one I pull out when I want to feel sexy. I think tank tops might become part of my new daily outfit so I need to find a cute one I can buy 30 of to wear every day.