For me, the line is clear: no commitment, no off-hours extended interactions, none of the serious features of a relationship. I’m not interested in breaking up families, becoming someone’s partner, or changing anyone’s private life status quo. I provide a service, a fantasy. I’m essentially an entertainer, playing the role of their dream girl. You pay, you get the service. No pay, no service. That’s the boundary, and it’s strictly professional. This also answers your question about friendships or personal relationships. The value for them lies in experiencing their own fantasy. They all know this is a paid service. Their reasons for seeking it vary, some do it out of boredom, others for no-strings-attached fun, some don’t have time for traditional relationships, some are dealing with family or marital issues, and others just want a guaranteed great time. + the discretion. All of my clients are men, and I’m certain this is a female-dominated profession.
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At this point in my career, I’m established and well-connected enough that I can be picky about who I see. These days, I mostly stick to long-term, regular clients. When you’re seeing someone consistently, of course a connection develops, but I’m a professional, and they respect that, so things never cross the line. A lot of them come to me specifically because they value that kind of professionalism and discretion. As far as boundaries go, I’m pretty flexible emotionally, I don’t really have any hard limits when it comes to closeness or connection. Physically, I do have a few firm boundaries: no girl-on-girl stuff, nothing degrading or humiliating, and things along those lines.
The term “girlfriend experience” basically means it’s not just about sex, it also includes companionship, connection, and emotional closeness. Some escorts don’t offer that at all; they just provide sex without the added personal side of things. The great thing about the girlfriend experience is that it’s totally customizable based on what the client wants. They get to define what it means. For some, it might be traveling together, going on dates, attending events, or just hanging out as friends. For others, it might include passionate nights and a deeper level of intimacy.
The girlfriend experience is essentially my bread and butter. I genuinely love it. It’s actually one of the main reasons I got into escorting in the first place, the human connection.
To be fair, my area of expertise is the girlfriend experience, so I understand how venting could be part of that. Still, I find the trauma dumping exhausting.
It is, and it’s by far my least favorite part of the job.
genevieve@sh.itjust.worksto Technology@lemmy.world•ChatGPT advises women to ask for lower salaries, study findsEnglish338·5 days agoI just tried this for my line of work out of curiosity:
genevieve@sh.itjust.worksOPto Today I Learned@lemmy.world•TIL that during its founding, Israel conducted an operation called Cast Thy Bread, in which typhoid bacteria were used to poison drinking water wellsEnglish4711·5 days ago“But do you condemn Oct 7 and Hamas?!” As much as I condemn the Warsaw Ghetto Uprising and Jewish resistance under Nazi rule.
genevieve@sh.itjust.worksto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Is there is a social media propaganda campaign going on right now?2018·6 days agoThe only propaganda campaign happening on social media right now is Israel’s ongoing attempt to justify its crimes against humanity. I’m sorry if the reality of the Palestinian genocide makes you uncomfortable, that must be difficult for you.
genevieve@sh.itjust.worksto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•How do you lose alot of fat quickly with no exercise?25·6 days agoYes, cocaine is the pièce de résistance in the modeling world. It suppresses appetite (essential when extreme thinness is expected), acts as a stimulant (helpful when you’re deprived of food and sleep), and serves as a social lubricant in elite circles (crucial for networking). All birds, one stone.
genevieve@sh.itjust.worksto News@lemmy.world•Russiagate only tip of iceberg in Western demonization of Russia – expert41·7 days agoRT? Russian state propaganda news channel? Seriously?
genevieve@sh.itjust.worksto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•How do you lose alot of fat quickly with no exercise?811·7 days agoI’m a former model. Cocaine + water/juice fasting is what we did. Absolutely not recommended. Please lose weight the healthy way.
genevieve@sh.itjust.worksto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Which song is stuck in your head today?6·7 days agoparty 4 u by Charli xcx ‘cause of this clip.
genevieve@sh.itjust.worksto Technology@lemmy.world•Reddit users in the UK must now upload selfies to access NSFW subredditsEnglish167·9 days agoThe “won’t somebody please think of the children” rhetorical tactic is always just a pretext for authoritarianism, mass surveillance and data privacy intrusion. Always. It’s the perfect motte-and-bailey: when you attack the actual motives, the motte becomes, “So you don’t care about children?”
genevieve@sh.itjust.worksto Technology@lemmy.world•Reddit users in the UK must now upload selfies to access NSFW subredditsEnglish373·9 days ago“Reddit has stressed that this system is only to verify users’ age, and it has no interest in your identity. Lee further stated that Persona won’t know what subreddits you visit, and has promised it won’t keep users’ uploaded images more than seven days.”
Press X to doubt.
genevieve@sh.itjust.worksto World News@lemmy.world•Armed police threatened to arrest Kent protester for holding Palestinian flagEnglish461·10 days agoDystopian. Free Palestine! 🇵🇸
genevieve@sh.itjust.worksto World News@lemmy.world•Voting age to be lowered to 16 in UK by next general electionEnglish73·10 days ago“The government said it was a reform to bring in more fairness for 16- and 17-year-olds, many of whom already work and are able to serve in the military. It brings the whole of the UK voting age to 16. Scotland and Wales have already made the change for Holyrood and Senedd elections, as well as local council elections.”
Great logical reform.
For as long as they’ve paid for. They pay me thousands $ per hour, I perform flawlessly until the end and provide a quality service. I have a reputation to uphold.