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Cake day: November 4th, 2023

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  • My dad died while I was in grad school (pancreatic cancer). He was the sole breadwinner for our household - it was a real wakeup call, but I also realize in hindsight that he probably negatively impacted my personal growth. I thought, while he was around, that supporting the family business would be a viable career path, but it was mismanaged and I disagreed with decisions he would make. Instead I have had a successful career in consulting and with large corporations. There was an interim period where I did manage the business, but ended up shuttering it/liquidating. It also resulted in my siblings getting full rides to compete their undergrad. I think in our case, experiencing the bottom fall out motivated us to not miss our shot.

    I do miss him, but I can’t help but think it was for the better.















  • We just finished building a chicken coop and have 5 beautiful little chickens now! We’re probably gonna spend some time in our back yard cleaning up the coop, letting the chickens roam the yard, and gardening.

    We got invited to a friend’s house for a pool party, so we will probably hit that up. Family is in town from out of state, so we will probably have to rendezvous with them at some point (not really looking forward to that).

    I’m hoping to have some time to grind FFXIV before the new expansion comes out. I’m a few quests away from finishing Shadowbringer - I have less than 20 days until the release of Dawntrail and I’m pretty sure I’m not gonna be done with End walker by then, womp womp. Looking forward to the new classes and the graphics update.