That is a pretty lit stat. I guess I’d dump a few scores for that
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Poorly worded memes aside this really is one of the places on fediverse where you have no enemies. Lady Butterfly is pretty chill and empathetic when she’s actually running the account manually so I think she’d get it. I’ve seen you go to bat for other stigmatized people who to my knowledge you didn’t have an intersection in common with so I think you deserve that too.
As for everyone’s awareness of personality disorders, it’s all a work in progress right? Gotta meet people where they’re at. And I hope where you’re at feels better soon.
Many of us have had turbulent relationships with parents or siblings. Combine that with the cloud of pop-psy disinfo surrounding personality disorders it’s bound to happen.
I personally don’t know how to call it out without making people feel like I’m blaming them for something real they suffered at the hands of a disregulated person, or an average abuser who they perceive to be disregulated. Coming at the issue from that side just seems like it will only spread the stigma.
Has anyone out there survived this character creation diceroll?
sad_detective_man@sopuli.xyztoShitty Ask Lemmy•Who is the most fuckable muppet and why is it Beaker?English
11·12 days agoWhat coward downvoted this? You’re not man enough for the hard hitting questions.
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No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Do turkeys that tell you to cook from frozen usually turn out as good as thawed ones?
71·12 days agoMy brother that is a sapient animal beyond the explanation of science 🙏 it has no business near a dinner plate
Fuck. Wait you’re right. I fucking forgot about Rowling, I’m sorry. I just saw the meme and thought “Yeah that’s me. I’m a mothafuckin problem😎” and wasn’t considering… well, her
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Ukraine@sopuli.xyz•Russia is using inaccurate missiles that can miss by hundreds of meters to attack Ukrainian cities - and plans to scale them up
2·13 days agoAren’t undirected weapons something they try you at Hague for?
The home depot near me ran out of these. I had to drive to the next town over just to find they only had them going the other direction. Guess my DIY project is on hold
Damn he’s fine. Look at that face!
Do y’all got problems with the timing? My shit won’t go down right if it’s out of step with my pulse or something
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Unpopular Opinion@lemmy.world•This is pizza from Altoona, PAEnglish
18·14 days agoYeah this what they were eating when they ratted on Luigi
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196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•nice. DAY 74 [OC, brainmade]English
2·14 days agoRelatable, as far as brain noises go
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Why don’t we separate the art from the artist?
3·15 days agoMy pleasure, thanks for bearing with me through all the typos in that reply
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Today I Learned@lemmy.world•TIL the etymology of "Kirkiversary"English
3·15 days agoI’m sad this is getting downvoted. Scientific etymology of wild 21st century jargon is so fun
Kirk as a name is derived from the Anglic word for Church, right?
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Why don’t we separate the art from the artist?
6·15 days agoSince Velma was quick and already pretty well defined what we know about cave paintings, I’d actually like to add on to your question since this is one of my favorite topics.
There’s a lot of art out there that was created because artists set out to create something that isn’t specifically political. That’s a little harder to escape politics on because the artists had a motive in mind when they wanted to pursue that goal. Something of note though that was in popular discourse around four years ago though was Zombie Formalism which was shown to be created as a genre of painting used as fiat currency for the wealthiest people to exchange and launder money. While that context is pretty political, if you only look at the intent of the artists they were trying to make art that said as little as possible in order to not draw any attention and be an effective form of untaxed currency. That could be a plausible bet, depending on how you personally invoke Death of the Author
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science@lemmy.world•Sex differences in attention are present at birth, study findsEnglish
5·15 days agoHopefully one day we can face that question without needing a motivated answer. Right now I don’t think the world is ready or can be even a little normal about it















Not fully automated, she just has scheduled posts. I’m pretty sure she’s behind the wheel for her discussion posts on c/womensstuff at the very least. She definitely leaves comments still