Anyone who knows about these places know they are bad news and fuck up people for life.

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    that, or, you know, he was accurately assessed to be a troubled youth, which certainly seems like the nicest thing you can say for a guy who ended up doing in his parents with a knife.

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        Being tortured in the woods

        is that what happened? do you think, more often than not, the kids of incredibly affluent and libbed out families, get sent to torture camp?

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          Have you read about Elan School? If not, you should. It is indicative of what those nature programs are like. It is chilling and highly disturbing. The kids are not allowed to communicate accurately to the parents the abuse that is happening.

          https://elan.school/

          Edit: I should have mentioned, massive content warning. Kidnapping, child abuse, specifically, recruiting older children to perpetuate further verbal and physical abuse to the younger children, sleep deprivation, it goes on and on.

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              Sorryyyyyy I also regret reading the whole thing when I did years ago. I did put a content warning after a few minutes though. It is horrible but also strangely compelling to read.

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                Oh absolutely. I feel like I’m getting PTSD just by reading this and I can’t stop reading it

                spoiler

                i genuinely thought it was going to end once he made it to Brooklyn. Silly me🙃

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                    If I recall, even he’s not sure how it happened, but he believes it’s because the guy who ran Elan was probably well connected with other local intitutions and could contact them to look for him

                    him suddenly turning to religion after that experience isn’t too surprising though. i’d be goddamn terrified if they somehow found me that far away. Hell, when he introduced me to the drifter in the van, I was sure that the guy actually worked for Elan and went out there just to grab him and take him back

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            I have no words. Death to America, Death to Australia, Death to the Empire (she repeats to herself like a centering mantra almost devoid of meaning at this point.)

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              is it? that’s typical you think?

              Yes. The troubled teen industry is abusive, period. These are not evidence based programs, they are torture centers following a made up therapy invented by cultists. That’s literally what “troubled teen program” means in the USA. If you look at the link OP posted, this particular case was a “wilderness school” in Utah - that’s not at all ambiguous or possibly legitimate. His parents paid for him to be abused as a child.

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              Why are you so unwilling to accept the well documented abuses of troubled teen camps? Have you done any research into this subject before coming in here and going “NUH-UH”" to everyone giving you an explanation?

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              I didn’t mean for this to become a dogpile on you like it did. Sorry for that. But you need to educate yourself on this topic.

              I don’t think Robert Reiner knew how bad the programs are. He seems like a decent guy. But yes, it is that bad, nearly across the board. Teen corrections is a 50 billion dollar industry in the US. Other countries don’t have that kind of cottage industry, and ours is uniquely bad, but also that isn’t completely common knowledge yet, or certainly was less known back when he was sent.

              Also, Utah and Nevada and states like it are commonly chosen for these things because child abuse protections are/were more lenient in those states. Under 18 years old Gay/trans conversion therapy was still allowed in Nevada until 2017.

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                I don’t think Robert Reiner knew how bad the programs are.

                Unfortunately this seems like it’s typical, with parents never coming to terms with what they put their kids through because they thought it was going to help them. The kids are punished by the people running the program if they don’t pretend they’re happy and the program is going well, etc.

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                2020 in Utah, and that by governor executive order after the legislature wouldn’t do it. Didn’t become actual law to ban conversion therapy on minors in Utah until 2023.

                And I really shudder to think what still goes on among the religious population there who think they get their laws from god.

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              is it? that’s typical you think?

              There have been exposes, damning investigation and lawsuits about basically all of the big ones.

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          Sadly, that is specifically what “troubled youth program” means in America. The programs lie to the parents, and the parents usually lie to themselves even if the kids tell them what happened (which they are often forcibly prevented from doing while in the program). These programs have their roots in actual cults, not genuine psychological research.

          Other mentioned the Elan School, which is a famous (and typical, unfortunately) example. I cannot emphasize enough how serious the content warnings others have mentioned are. The details can get extremely upsetting.

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            And if they were willing to do that to a rich white girl, imagine what they do to children who are poor (being sent to these camps as wards of the state) or black or gay or any other list of vulnerable groups. The people running these places act with impunity and know their victims can’t retaliate.

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          Yes. They just get sent to more expensive ones. The TruAnnon series is long af but its also an amazing bit of work that covers all of this pretty thoroughly

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          do you think, more often than not, the kids of incredibly affluent and libbed out families, get sent to torture camp?

          Not more often than not, no, but this guy absolutely, verifiably was. Because these troubled teen camps are absolutely, verifiably there to torture and abuse the kids who get sent there.

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      Brace from TrueAnon was sent to one, he talks about it on the series of episodes titled The Game. I first learned about them from the web comic that others posted, here. It’s a struggle to believe, and the parents largely have no idea what goes on there either, but between just those two sources you’ll see how fucked it is. Parents and the public at large are lied to about what it is, and since it costs some money, yes it is more affluent families doing it, and as has been said the kids are monitored and abused at all times and set against one another, while the guards are often former (well, current) victims of the system themselves, modeled after the very real cult that birthed it. It’s harrowing to learn about but that it could produce someone so unstable and vengeful is sadly not at all surprising.