• DireTech@sh.itjust.works
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    3 天前

    Depends on who you’re interested in. I’m frugal and had no interest dating someone who wanted to blow hundreds going out every weekend. Is it happening because they’re demanding it or because you assume you need to do it?

    • TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.worldOPM
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      3 天前

      cool. I have never met anyone ‘frugal’ in my dating pool over a decade.

      I’ve met people who seem frugal at first, but then start demanding very expensive ‘favors’ from you though!

      I met one lady where we had nice low cost dates, but then she asked me to pay her $5000 car repair bill.

      It’s how dating is. If you want to date, you have to pay. There is no getting around it.