I might get hate because of my instance here, but in an attempt to better understand Lemmy I’m wondering if some of you can shed a light on why you chose this instance, what’s great about it, what could be better, is the instance rivalries something that affects your use of the platform or is it just background noise?

I’m not trying to start a fight or mud slinging, it would be good if several people could say their piece and nobody shame or attack them for it no matter how much you disagree.

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    I wanted an actual leftist instance, not Libs pretending they’re left while upholding the worst parts of capitalism and imperialism. I wanted viewpoints outside of the colonial center. I feel like I got what I wanted. They’re pretty up front about what you’ll find inside.

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      lol, just now noticed them saying shit like “This is a rather neurodivergent absolutist approach hoping for a utopia any smart person know is not achieved within the parameters of today’s power structure.” and “You don’t even need a tinfoil hat to see that if .ml is indeed russian made, trump is a russian plant (buy russian oil), then it all makes perfect sense.” and basically accusing all of .ml being Russian bots and/or paid actors because some of us are extremely opposed to voting? There’s a difference between having a discussion about the effectiveness of voting in helping to stop the genocide in Palestine, and starting to throw about dehumanizing shit and baseless accusations.

      edit: oh yeah, and:

      I understand this viewpoint. I think it’s less an opinion and more a neurological condition

      yes, because we are all autistic and stupid we can’t see that the entire instance is controlled by the russians who put Trump in power, and all of this is evidenced by the actions of the mod of a single community and a few strong words, and by the fact some of our users refuse to participate in bourgeois elections in the imperial core. nice.

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        I understand this viewpoint. I think it’s less an opinion and more a neurological condition

        What the fuck is wrong with that user? Or I guess I should have expected ableism from a lib… just like the rampant homophobia or racism (it’s against the right targets after all!!)

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      Oh it’s the account upset people don’t like politicians okay with genocide while also saying they know nothing about Israel or Palestine.

      And of course world just locked the post the op did there with the similar question. Weird how only the one against free speech didn’t lock it 🤔

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      I think they managed to anger 3 different instances at the same time. If they weren’t doing such terrible comments would almost be impressive

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    I joined because I wanted access to a reddit-style place that wasn’t part of the neoliberal echo chamber that is culture in the imperial core, but I had gotten tired of the bear site.

    I like the instance, I like the moderation, I like how its widely federated. I wish it did not have downvotes like hexbear does, but I find the .ml community to be much better in general, though a bit too sectarian at times.

    I prefer .ml to hexbear because hexbear has big time “midwestern covid conscious lesbian bar” vibes at times.

    My main issue with .ml is how other instances act. It’s pretty common to see ridiculous lies about .ml with a bunch of upvotes and the OP is never able to provide any proof when asked for it. But people still believe it because it’s .ml
    Same with how a lot of users’ brains will shut down when they see anything they disagree with posted by someone from this instance. All rationality goes out the window and they retreat to a frustrating ad hominem of “you’re using this instance, thus I dont have to take it seriously” - “ml detected, opinion disregarded” it’s so sad to see people be so scared.

    I also see users from other instances cry about .ml moderation. Personally I feel like it is pretty evenhanded and fair, but moderation will always skew against outsiders. I’ve been banned from some communities due to incivility while the equally uncivil person I was replying to was not. That’s just how it is everywhere, I dont go about pretending like thats some special feature of .world.

    So all in all I like it and my issue with it is mainly other instances.

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    I’m not trying to start a fight or mud slinging, it would be good if several people could say their piece and nobody shame or attack them for it no matter how much you disagree.

    🤥🤥👖🔥🔥🔥

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      (for those who don’t get it: this emoji-combination is miming the children’s saying “liar liar pants on fire”. sorry if i am ruining it or being too obvious)

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    It’s a nice place. I’ve never had any issues with it. I like that I have a space to be with like-minded people after spending most of my time around people who very much aren’t. I like that I don’t often encounter racism and while I do encounter misogyny it is less common here than other online spaces

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    I like the tech focus and how the politics are less impulse-based and seem more rooted in reality and people are more willing to deviate from the crowd. Also like that it doesn’t block Hexbear/Lemmygrad, piracy communities, Tor users, etc.

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    It was the first instance.

    I joined lemmy because I was a big proponent of federated networks. I had had accounts on other federated networks before this one, some of which died out entirely. (I think the first “reddit-like” network I was on was called prismo? Diaspora is more facebook-like and still exists.) I had no clue it was going to get anywhere near as big as it has, and I definitely did not forsee how fucking stupid the instance tribalism would become where new users don’t know so just pick one and then seem to be judged for their decision when other members of their community are jackasses in one way or another.

    I think overall I’m happy lemmy caught on, but it definitely felt more like a community before the redditors came over. On the other hand, I do think part of the reason it was able to catch on in a way the others weren’t was how much it felt like a friendly community here. There was already something with a positive culture to migrate to.

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    To me it was a matter of getting tired of imperialist and bigoted stuff, before that I used one that styles itself as apolitical, naively thinking they’d be at least somewhat better than Reddit. But nope, same reactionary, racist shit.

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    I still don’t understand what that means. I don’t know what instance/s I use. I don’t know how to use a different one. I don’t know how to properly search across instances. I barely understand that an instance means something technical with accessing stuff.

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    it’s one of the “official” ones being supported by lemmy developers, otherwise i don’t really feel the difference. anything is better over the shithole that was reddit.

    i guess there’s more marxists on .ml, but i don’t read the instance the comment is from on purpose; that’s irrelevant to me.

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    It’s a Lemmy server where you can talk about any brand of cat food that interests you. I love the smell of freedom in the morning.