• MotoAsh@lemmy.world
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    10 months ago

    An open relationship isn’t that weird of a concept to some. It’s about how much others mean to you, not how much of them you posess. People in these comments are fucking pathetic for not understanding this basic fact of healthy relationships: You do not own anyone else. To any degree. Period.

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      10 months ago

      That’s a neat story you got there, but literally nobody here is saying they do own someone else.

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        Why yes you are correct: what I’m saying isn’t appliccable to 100% of people! Do you want a gold star for your basic observation?

        It’s like you removed don’t understand that not everyone has or wants the same relationship.

        You are in this comic.

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          I think most people here agree with you, it’s just that the way you’re speaking to them comes off as judgemental and kinda mean, so they respond accordingly.

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              10 months ago

              do you want a gold star for your obsevation

              you removed

              you are in this comic

              Haha yeah, only 75% of your comment was attempting to be insulting in some way! How could anybody think you’re being an ass? Poe’s law sure is crazy.

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                10 months ago

                Right, I’m definitely not commenting about the previous part of the discussion. Or did you forget that happened?

                removed is apparently appropriate.

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                  People in these comments are fucking pathetic…

                  Amazing how you children cannot…

                  I’m sorry for not going into further detail?? You’ve used belittling or downright insulting language in like 5/7 of your comments in this thread now. And the small page of profile digging I had to do to find those shows it’s not just this thread you’ve got an attitude in. Maybe you’re the problem and not everybody else?

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                    10 months ago

                    About conversations turning south? Absolutely, totally my fault. Though you’re still all removed fundamentally failing to understand how healthy relationships work or how what I said applies.

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          10 months ago

          I said nobody here. I.e. these comments, the people you said think that. Would you like a participation trophy for your reading comprehension?

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      No ownership, but sharing time. I want to buy a house not a time-share. I want that deep emotional connection with someone. I don’t have the capacity to have more than one deep connection and would like someone similar. If my partner chooses they want something open, that’s fine, but we would transition to friends