I legitimately find it difficult to long term stay annoyed with people who have wronged me. I have close friends and family telling me how ridiculous it is I’m still in touch and friendly with people I used to consider friends but briefly cut them out after they treated me horribly. I can see the logic and feel as though I SHOULD hate certain people for how they’ve been in the past but I just don’t feel any anger or resentment and am quite happy to just forget the past. Is this weird and/or unhealthy?

  • diffusive@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    The real question is… Are these people repeatidly hurting you or they were one offs?

    If it’s repeated… Well that is an issue… You don’t have a defense mechanism.

    If it’s one off… Well you just are an optimist person 😃