• gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de
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      what are your stakes in the game? what does it cost you if you’re wrong and having children does indeed turn out to be a mistake? are you gonna pay for the damages? if not, then you have no right to tell people what to do.

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        I’m just not going to work for their pension and I will not have my kid work for their pension

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          You are emblematic of the selfish mentality so many people have these days, which is a meaningful part of why I personally don’t want to have kids

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            As long as you take care of your own pension then it’s all fine. Do whatever you want.

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        My wife has been an indonesian all her life and her family does pretty well. She and her sisters have university degrees. Her sisters both are married, have 2 or 1 kid.

        It’s all pretty fine. Labour is very cheap but so is the cost of living. They barely have any old people and a high labour force. Their economy has been booming.

        Maybe you should go there