I’ve been using a 3rd party client to access posts on Lemmy. I loved the experience back when Reddit allowed 3rd party apps. But I felt the feed was a bit…one sided.

I figured it was just because I was new to Lemmy, but then I sorted posts by New.

Nothing but trans anime porn. It’s like the only people that came to Lemmy were the people that got kicked out of Reddit circles because all they could think about was trans anime porn.

Maybe I signed up on the wrong instance? But I don’t think that’s the problem.

How are so many people trying to treat Lemmy as a balanced alternative to Reddit?

What the fuck?!

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    OP’s comment history is full of antagonism and bad takes. So many of their comments have exclamation points!!! I have a feeling they’re a bit lost on things and/or they don’t want to admit to the means by which they are seeing this content that they claim to be repulsed by. Blocking is free, and I suggest doing to major sources of bad vibes.

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    Have your main account set to filter out NSFW to avoid that content. Also, there is absolutely no shortage of that content on reddit lmao. At least when I was there anyway.

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    You must be using the All Trans Anime Porn All the Time app.

    I just use Firefox for Android and sort by New by default and I don’t recall seeing any trans anime porn. Ever.

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    It’s been months since I blocked all the individual instances that post things like that, I never see it. But yeah not surprised it’s still there. Lemmy blocklists should be a thing, would make the new user experience much more endurable. Last I checked I have over 800 communities blocked and dont miss any of them.

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      17 hours ago

      Curious to see your list of blocked instances (and if you remember why for each one).

      I’ve only blocked a couple, but I’ve seriously thought about many more.

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        Took me a while as I’m doing this on a phone but here are my blocked instances with reasons, and for your enjoyment, all my blocked communities (there are considerably fewer than 800 though)

        Mostly I block things I have little interest in, foreign languages, nsfw, anime, bands, video games, religions, subcultures I’m not a part of. I generally don’t have any ill will toward them but have no need to see their posts. Some of these I’ve blocked after browsing c/all and seen one post. This blocklist has made c/all pleasantly readable for me. I’ve also got a few dozen users blocked but I’ll I’ll keep that list to myself.

        Blocked Instances

        mtgzone.com I dont play mtg

        pawb.social not a furry

        pawb.fun not a furry

        feddit.it I don’t speak italian

        lemmy.eco.br or portugese

        jlai.lu or enough french to use this

        yiffit.net again, not a furry

        feddit.dk I dont speak enough german

        fanaticus.social I dont remember what this one is but if its sports yeah that’s the reason

        soccer.forum not big on soccer

        lemmynsfw.com I dont use lemmy for porn

        pornlemmy.com ditto

        monero.town I am not a cryptocurrencist

        lemmy.vg nor vegan

        vegantheoryclub.org again, not vegan

        veganism.social I eat plant based meals but meat is in there usually as a flavor enhancer and for added convenient protein

        vegane.schule german and vegan, big nope from this lemmitor

        lemmy.vegan.dev I need a certain amount of meat to code

        social.vegan.im.it italian food is probably pretty good without meat but hey I’m not going to bass my whole personality around it

        feddit.ro even romanians will look at you funny if you try to learn their language

        szmer.info what even is this

        awful.systems these dorks are mean

        hilariouschaos.com these dorks are boring

        dubvee.org no clue

        ani.social I choose to socialize the bare minimum with the anime folks, sorry


        Blocked Communities

        Sex Meme Pit@lemmyf.uk

        Peanuts@midwest.social

        Superbowl

        LEGO

        Poems@reddthat.com

        Classic Wow@lemmy.ca

        naruto@lemm.ee

        Dandadumber [MANGA READERS HERE]@ani.social

        NFL@nfl.community

        Tiddies + Gravity@ani.social

        Low Quality Facts@lemmy.zip

        Stardew Valley@lemm.ee

        Rayven-Dev

        Call Me Kevin

        Catfight Arena@lemmy.sdf.org

        Shitty Ask Lemmy@lemmy.uhhoh.com

        Livestream Fails

        Music

        [ARCHIVED] Garden Grooves@walledgarden.xyz

        Satisfactory

        Anime Videos@ani.social

        Factorio

        Threesome@nsfwaiclub.com

        FFM Threesome

        POV@nsfwaiclub.com

        Kotaku@rss.ponder.cat

        Overwatch Porn

        Gonewild couples

        Chelsea Charms: Stunningly Huge Boobs - The World’s Biggest Augmented Breasts

        Nanashi Mumei

        Touhou Art@ani.social

        Saturday Morning Breakfast Cereal@midwest.social

        All things Mother and EB

        Soulslike - Discussion, News, Memes@lemmy.zip

        Aesthetic Miscellany

        Hazbin Hotel@lemm.ee

        Hardcore@nsfwaiclub.com

        Solo@nsfwaiclub.com

        Gonewild stories

        THE FINALS@fedia.io

        Nazposting!@feddit.online

        Calvin and Hobbes

        Bloom County@lemm.ee

        sammelalbum_iel@feddit.org

        Wings of fire

        wings of fire fan club

        The Official Unofficial Ashens Sublemmy

        Nose Ears@lemm.ee

        Squirrel Spotting Society@lemmy.sdf.org

        [ARCHIVED] weedtime@walledgarden.xyz

        hentai

        Furry Captions

        Slitterhead@lemmy.zip

        TinyURL

        NoFap@lemmy.ml

        christian stuff

        Duolingo

        Fighting Game Community

        Los Angeles Lakers

        grimdank

        Inktober 2024@sh.itjust.works

        Star Wars

        DnD Homebrew

        One Piece@discuss.tchncs.de

        Xbox@lemmy.zip

        Godot@programming.dev

        AI Generated Images@sh.itjust.works

        Jewish

        Oglaf@midwest.social

        Pokémon TCG Pocket@sh.itjust.works

        NSFWCYOA

        Colibri Wallet@programming.dev

        Fun Loops ▶️@midwest.social

        Helluva Boss

        Christianity@lemmy.ml

        [ARCHIVED] Pokemon TCGM@walledgarden.xyz

        Deadlock @sopuli.xyz

        cute dogs, cats, and other animals@lemmy.ml

        Boardgames

        SpaceX@sh.itjust.works

        No Americans Here

        Die Reklame@feddit.org

        egg_irl — Memes about being trans people in denial and other eggy topics@lemmy.blahaj.zone

        Life Insurance

        Skywind

        Kagurabachi@ani.social

        League of Legends@lemm.ee

        Reaction GIFs and Memes

        LA Clippers

        Album Art - Share your favourite music album cover

        Puns@lemmy.zip

        Dogs

        She-Ra@lemmy.blahaj.zone

        No Man’s Sky

        Video game chats@sh.itjust.works

        Board Games@sopuli.xyz

        Rabbits

        Vocaloid@ani.social

        Pokémon TCG Pocket@crazypeople.online

        Spiele - Brett, Gesellschaft, etc.@feddit.org

        The Apothecary Diaries | Kusuriya no Hitorigoto@ani.social

        Comics@lemmy.blahaj.zone

        Memes@lemmy.ml

        Boobies

        Four’s Airship (NieR/Drakengard)@lemm.ee

        The Expanse

        Spy x Family@lemmy.ca

        … okay thats the list

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    OP’s “karma”/reputation score, visible from Mbin instances, is at -1435. I think it’s safe to assume that OP does not intend to be taken seriously.

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    I make liberal use if the Lemmy feature of blocking users/communities/instances.

    I noticed the same thing as you—so much kinky shit when browsing All. I mostly don’t care what gets people off but I don’t need to see it in my feed. Eventually, I found that it was easiest to block entire instances where that stuff is prevalent. It’s not like you’ll miss anything important.

    Same with communities and users. If I know a community isn’t going to interest me, I block it from All. If a user bothers me enough that I recognize the name, I block them.

    It’s just better this way. You’re not missing much by blocking. Your time and attention is better spent on the things that matter to you.

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      Honestly, it’s kind of obnoxious that you’re inundated with porn by default in “all”. I mean, it’s fine if people are into that, but it’s not necessarily what every user wants to deal with blocking when the are a new user. Some might just erroneously assume the whole platform is just a porn site and leave if that isn’t what they want. I have blocked a shitton of porn communities because I’m not interested in that, but there are a hell of a lot of them. I’m glad instance blocking became a thing because prior to that I had a zillion communities blocked.

      Would just nice for the default to be different is all. I get why some people are immediately super turned off by using Lemmy because of stuff like that.

      Again, I’m not trying to say porn is necessarily bad, but it’s a bit jarring when that’s not what you came here for and when it’s not what the platform is “advertised” as. It’s like if Grandma tries to join Facebook to stay connected to people but when she first logs in there’s just porn all over her feed. Obviously that doesn’t happen there. I’m just trying to paint a picture.

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    Mfw I’m finding out that the gay furry instance that is my home instance has less porn than ops instance

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    Mine isn’t that way at all. My feed is always set to “All”, and it’s a diverse range of discussions.

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    I’d imagine the typical Lemmy user to be an American college/university student. I haven’t personally noticed any trans leaning in the content here but anime/hentai definitely is disporpotionately represented.

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    Have you tried not subscribing to those communities?

    The main difference with Reddit is Reddit excludes all NSFW and quarantined subs from the all feed, Lemmy doesn’t. So if your instance federates with porn instances yeah, the all feed is gonna suck.

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    My home feed is “all”, sorted by “hot”(weird i know but its a good way to find communities to sub to). I dont usually see nsfw, but I have seen some trans memes, sfw yuri and a instance dedicated to middrift which is kind of nsfw but has no parts showing. If i dont like what im seeing i just block the instance. But it hasnt happened alot. Mostly just news articles and current events though.