I’m becoming more aware of the rest of my own body and its sensations, and I’d like to hear perspectives from the community: where when and how do you like to be touched? For simplicity let’s say only your partner’s hands.

For genital contact, I like when my partner grabs my penis at the base and squeezes hard. Something about the way the blood surges under their grip.

For other contact, it depends on gender. With men, I like the way a guy can squeeze my shoulders/arms. I think it’s a strength thing, with both our muscles flexing together. With women, it’s 100% when they grab the hair on the back of my head while I’m going down on them. It’s a very intimate moment of course, and I like how if I hit a spot just right with my tongue or nose that I immediately get feedback from her through her grip.

  • DelvianSeek@lemmynsfw.com
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    1 year ago

    I’ve always loved being scratched (and bitten, slapped, whipped, etc - I just love pain). My wife scratching her nails up and down my arms can send me to another world.

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      1 year ago

      Yeah I was with a guy once the liked being bitten, particularly when close to orgasm. I was happy to oblige even if I didn’t quite understand. Aren’t human brains interesting?