• Seagoon_@aussie.zone
    8·
    1 month ago

    is it dumping or is it team work ?

    Is women complaining about men showing their emotional side and showing their vulnerabilities part of the problem

    do women want strong men, and let’s define what strong means

    do women get to define who men should be

    Everything I just wrote is about intimate relationships, about a partnership

    if people are just casual friends then it’s a boundary issue

    • Bottom_racer@aussie.zone
      7·
      1 month ago

      is it dumping or is it team work ?

      That’s a good question and I suppose the answer would vary.

      Imo in an ideal world there should be equal give and take (in terms of dumping shit and being receptive as in listening to it) but I’m uncertain as to whether that world exists.

      • Seagoon_@aussie.zone
        5·
        1 month ago

        It might be that people’s needs are different at different times, they might dump at different times, but over time it equals out.