I did get the impression it was a bit of a coming out of sorts, but possibly the first time she’s been asked the “what/how do you like to identify yourself in terms of gender” question. She has a very small group of friends, and from what she’s said they’re the kids who would identify differently from “the norm” and wouldn’t be as surprised as me to hear her say it. We’ve talked in the past about how she’s most likely described as gender fluid. I hadn’t heard her call herself a boy before. You’re right about nothing else changing though, I’m right by her side through this journey and yes, the dinner must still be made!