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I have no one to tell IRL without getting shame so yeah.

  • IninewCrow@lemmy.ca
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    9 months ago

    Good for you and all my love to you.

    Just a reminder, nothing about human sexuality is set in stone … we are very complicated beings.

    What your preference today is not the same as it was a year or two ago and it may not be the same years from now. We grow, we evolve, we change with time, environment, genetics, mentality and circumstances.

    Some people maintain their sexual preferences the same all their lives … some people change over time … some people are just all over the place.

    What I do know is that none of it matters. The common denominator is that you feel love, want love, want love shared with you and you want to share love with others.

    So no matter what you think or feel, as long as you are safe and the person you are with loves you and you love them and both of you consent to whatever it is you both want to do … none of it matters to the rest of us or the world … who you are at this moment is perfect.

  • JadenSmith@sh.itjust.works
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    9 months ago

    Congratulations on finding personal acceptance of an important part of one’s identity.

    Not everyone will be welcoming, though you will one day be able to use this as foresight to guiding yourself towards good people - people who would accept you irl as well as online.

    Stay good to yourself.

  • MinnesotaGoddam@lemmy.world
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    9 months ago

    Neat! I’m in a similar situation. I have no need to come out to anyone but my wife, and she’s cool, so she’s the only person who knows me who knows.

    • abcde_fz@lemmy.world
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      9 months ago

      Same. Lol I am looking for some thing profound but that’s kind of it. Neat, and same 😊.

    • Luna Sandwich@lemmy.world
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      9 months ago

      My husband is bi! He doesn’t feel a need to act on it (even though I told him that’d be ok). He just needed to be honest and tell someone. Now we joke about cute guys together. It’s fun. :)