I used to have sex almost every day, but entertainment kept getting more entertaining… Sure sex is great, but have you tried deep diving into the history of typefaces? Or learning how to bind your own books from cereal boxes and thread??

I know I’m only speaking anecdotally, but I feel like sex is easier to like fall into when you have the capacity to be actually bored, and like have plenty of unstructured time.

Maybe I’m falling for the entertainment arm of the productivity gospel.

Also realise that some people don’t have access to anyone to suggest sex with, so that’s an additional barrier. If I lived alone, I don’t think I would even bother attempting—just so much else to do!