

I read a post about different communication styles, and this is “builder vs maintainer”. https://www.haileymagee.com/blog/three-communication-differences
A builder will try to add to the conversation by adding their own experiences. A maintainer will not add their own, but will focus on the other person’s.
A builder talking about something may feel like a maintainer isn’t that interested because they’re not adding anything.
A maintainer talking to a builder may feel annoyed because the builder keeps talking about themselves.
They’re never satiated.
They’re broken people and aren’t addressing the actual problems.