
Before being a parent i tried to do as much net positiv things for my energy level as possible.
- Go for a walk in nature as long as needed to feel decompressed
- Do something creative (with which i struggeled a lot because of overly high expectations for myself)
- Some caring for the body (e.g. a bath, nails, skincare, whatever)
But now as a parent, i just rest as much as possible and try not to feel bad for doing so.





There are breeders who are operating ethical, you know? Treating mother and father good, only letting so many litters happen, letting the kittens socialize before relocating to people willing to take good care of their new family members. Getting all the vet work done in the first weeks, providing good infos about the cats and what they will need…
And for why: some breeds are special in personality. I have two ragdoll-siam girls now and they really are special. Very people oriented, chatty, super patient with kids but still energetic. I can now see why some people pay for (ethically) bred cats.