• jia_tan@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    19 天前

    Ok but genuinely what’s the appeal? I’ve asked a pretty girl to step on me, and she did, and I still don’t get what’s so fun about it. After that we cuddled and that was way more enjoyable. Maybe it has something to do with me being ace.

    • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      19 天前

      Yeah, some people have particular kinks.

      I guess these days its just a meme to presume that all sex is comically kinky? I dunno.

      … probably its most from people who’ve barely actually ever touched another human being just sort of joking about how they think that must work.

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          19 天前

          Yeah I mean I didn’t mean that in an asshole-ish way… I’ve been a nerdy virgin before, and, well, less and less people are having sex, period, and more and more people are permaonline.

          I turned out to not be ace, but uh… yeah, dorky sex jokes, that kinda just actually don’t make sense cuz the joker doesn’t actually understand the thing they’re trying to joke about?

          Yeah, virgins and aces would seem most likely culprits there, to me.

    • sad_detective_man@sopuli.xyz
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      19 天前

      domination thing. also feet are involved but that’s more esoteric. i believe people’s attraction to feet functions on adjectivity from conventional sex appeal.

      so much of human sensuality is based on vibes and concepts that you’d be surprised at the number of people who underneath it all really can just get off from the sensation of sex alone

    • QuinnyCoded@sh.itjust.works
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      15 天前

      I feel the same exact way and I’m pretty sure I’m ace (even then when I took a test I’m literally 100% vanilla). It was pretty surprising when I found out people are actually serious about that kinda thing, hornyposting is just kinda a thing I do because it’s silly