To this day, she remembers the racing thoughts, the instant nausea, the hairs prickling up on her legs, the sweaty palms. She had shared a photograph of herself in her underwear with a boy she trusted and, very soon, it had been sent around the school and across her small home town, Aberystwyth, Wales. She became a local celebrity for all the wrong reasons. Younger kids would approach her laughing and ask for a hug. Members of the men’s football team saw it – and one showed someone who knew Davies’s nan, so that’s how her family found out.
Her book, No One Wants to See Your D*ck, takes a deep dive into the negatives. It covers Davies’s experiences in the digital world – that includes cyberflashing such as all those unsolicited dick pics – as well as the widespread use of her images on pornography sites, escort services, dating apps, sex chats (“Ready for Rape? Role play now!” with her picture alongside it). However, the book also shines a light on the dark online men’s spaces, what they’re saying, the “games” they’re playing. “I wanted to show the reality of what men are doing,” says Davies. “People will say: ‘It’s not all men’ and no, it isn’t, but it also isn’t a small number of weirdos on the dark web in their mum’s basements. These are forums with millions of members on mainstream sites such as Reddit, Discord and 4chan. These are men writing about their wives, their mums, their mate’s daughter, exchanging images, sharing women’s names, socials and contact details, and no one – not one man – is calling them out. They’re patting each other on the back.”
nice of you for labeling yourself like that but you misspelled incel.
Evidently, you’ve resorted to the classic second-grade retort of ‘Nuh-uh, you are.’ A timeless defense, to be sure, but ultimately as ineffective and impotent as you are.
I’ve got proof that you’re an incel or at the very least a child that didn’t receive enough love from their parents.
https://lemmy.world/comment/16783208
victim blaming and shaming. refuse to allow the perpetrators take responsibility because you feel personally attacked.
victim blaming again. this is such an incel move it’s almost like your penis has crawled up inside your body so it doesn’t have to look at you anymore.
still victim blaming. Jesus Christ, do you not ever want to be touched by a person again?
to go through your life as you do and not trust a single individual enough to share your most intimate moments with, how sad of an existence. to never feel the love or trust that someone puts in you to keep their most intimate secrets.
I’m not even mad, I’m legitimately sad for you that you will never know the amazing feelings of a loving trust between two people like what she thought she had. her trust was betrayed by someone like you, and that’s just disturbing that someone as strong as her could be broken by someone as weak as you.
sort your life out and get your shit straight. life is too short to be a sad little lonely boy all your life.