I want to be dating a guy, and for him to randomly show up at my door with flowers. Maybe some nice chocolates too but really just to show up one day, knock at my door and offer me a bouquet of flowers. Perhaps carefully chosen to show that he’s listened to me, but even just a random allotment of roses that he got from Walmart.
Edit: I’m a gay dude btw
I was once buying flowers for my partner because I knew they enjoyed them. The guy selling them asked “what’s the occasion?” And I just shrugged. “General maintenance?” and that’s how I have thought of it ever since. It’s good for the relationship to remember your partner’s wants and needs unprompted. Makes everyone feel good. Not an expectation per se, but it is work.