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      I’d say “only post them if they themselves want to be posted and delete on request”

      Moms forcing kids into taking a picture, or even worse, stealthily picturing them and then sharing it all over WhatsApp groups or Facebook or whatever is terrible.

      Child sharing a cool or funny photo of themselves is fine

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    i still fucking hate school to this day, and i’ve been finished with it for a while.

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    Look around you, wherever you live, I bet most people are fairly happy. So if every day is dreadful to you, maybe you have depression.

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    The second day of school is always worse than the first.

    And then the third day is worse than the second.

    This continues throughout your life until you die.

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      until you die

      Only in America. In other places, you graduate or drop out before dying.

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      Nah siblings. Theres a hack: self-employment. Work for your goddamn selves. Get the money. Call no man boss.

      It’s not always easy and it took me years to do it but I did it and… well I think I am pretty special tbh but there are LOTS of people who aren’t and theyre doing just fine. Many subcontractors are not geniuses. Nor do they have to be!

      Fuck a job, get a trade.

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        As a part self-employed, part regularly employed myself, it has its drawbacks.

        You have little to no protections as a worker, and bear a lot of the risks. You may run out of orders or get sick and you’re the only person responsible for your safety net. Given that self-employment quite often pays less than regular one, this might be a big issue.

        But on a bright side, there’s so much more freedom in this. You choose what to do, and unless you run a place or something, you choose when and sometimes even where you do it.

        For me, I found a very welcoming space for self-employment, particularly research contracts. Projects take anything from 3 months to a few years, and you only have to check in once a few months to tell how it’s going and what’s next. I have full access to the laboratory resources I need, and half of the job is paperwork (compiling sources, devising methods, referencing against equipment, estimating bills, writing reports, writing articles for public projects, applying for new projects…) that can be done from home.

        So, I can easily take a week off this part if I need time for personal projects, and can double down when I feel I can pull it off. This reduces mental strain dramatically, though requires some level of discipline. Pay is not overwhelming, but it keeps me afloat. So, overall, I’m happy with my choices.

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    Isn’t it sad that most people dislike(ed) or even hate(ed) school? Shouldn’t it be fun and exciting?

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      School can’t be fun and exciting all the time, otherwise kids would just have 8 hours of recess every day. They still need to learn math, spelling, reading, and science, and despite it not always fun. Ideally there should be a balance that tries to maximizes both education and a child’s mental health.

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      The point of school (until collage) is to scare you away from further education with bullshit subjects and make you into a perfect wage slave.

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          It is when you don’t go to the good schools, it depends almost entirely on your economic class. The better the area you live in, the better public schools tend to be or you’re more likely to be able to afford a private school where they actually educate you. My wife went to a super ghetto high school and they didn’t teach those kids shit except to shut up and do what your authority figures tell you to do, and pretty much everyone I’ve known from poorer areas had about the same experience. In America you’re not likely to get a real education unless you or your local taxes can pay for it.

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        Bad life rng, I think

        For me it got progressively worse for the next 12 years then suddenly better and then suddenly even better after uni. But I’m lucky to have a job that pays well, that I don’t hate, with great colleagues.

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    And now with no future their suffering at school is extra pointless. No longer do they work towards securing their own future, they merely toil scholastically because of a societal machine that continues running despite long past surviving its own purpose.

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        That is not what people go to school for. Schools actively discourage being an autodidact by insisting you learn what they tell you to learn.

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            They force you into a system of obedience and productivity. Subject you to petty tyrants (teachers) and peer bullies. And by default treat every student the same regardless of different neurology and personality, until they start causing ‘trouble’ at least.

            Outside the early fundamentals of reading, writing, logic, and math, as well as being a beneficial vehicle to learn how to socialize with peers as mostly a side effect, school is romanticized beyond its actual positive social value. Its for babysitting while parents work and turning children into obedient worker drones, or at least identifying which ones will be obedient and which ones will end up under a bridge in adulthood.

            It also serves even less purpose in terms of setting children up for a career now however. Climate change, high tech surveillance fascism, and the clear aim to replace all workers (especially educated white collar ones) with AI systems render this more cynical “positive” of career trajectory as largely moot. Even if AI systems are worse than humans and the quality of services go down with their mass adoption, the price of AI systems compared to humans is so extreme that it hardly matters to the bean counters.

            It would be better at this point, after they’re taught the basics/fundamentals, to let the kids have their own self directed fun because long term careers hardly matter anymore. You could have mentors, collected learning resources & tools, but the kids should come to them of their own desire (and they would). The only real restrictions being that they’re kept away from dopamine hijacking online content that largely damages long term focus.

            School probably has the potential to be wholly beneficial, but in its current form it is a mixed bag at best.