transcription: homophobic men are literally so gay, why are you getting mad over two men kissing? are you jealous?

  • vrek@programming.devBanned from community
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    3 months ago

    Thinking that much about what a guy does with his dick is quite gay…

  • NorthWestWind@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    Wasn’t there a study that showed homophobic men are more turned on by gay porn compared to non-homophobes?

    • groet@feddit.org
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      3 months ago

      This might also be a measuring problem. Quantifying “turned on” might be pretty hard and what is actually measured is more a “evokes emotional response and increases blood flow”.

      Maybe 5% horny and 30% angry measures the same as 25% horny.

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          3 months ago

          I doubt they got homophobes to allow them to put a ring around their cock and measure the blood pressure while they show them gay porn.

          Much more likely they measured an EEG, general blood pressure, sweat production etc

  • applebusch@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    3 months ago

    So here’s a weird thing to think about. I’m a bi trans woman, and for a large part of my life I was unaware of those things about myself. I sometimes felt sexually attracted to men but I never enjoyed seeing gay men do stuff romantically or in porn and found it uncomfortable. This was very confusing for me. The reason it was uncomfortable was because I was trying to put myself in their position in my head, but because I’m not really a man it felt wrong so I thought I didn’t really like men. I’m not saying homophobes have that experience, they probably don’t, but ones own sexuality can be very confusing when you aren’t living your own truth because you drank the coolaid of heteronormativity.

  • FenrirIII@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    Homophobia makes no sense to me. Who cares what they do in private. From an evolutionary standpoint, it means less competition and a greater chance of passing on your genes.

  • BanMe@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    This is why it’s unwise to fuck straight guys on the apps. A nonzero number of them are homophobes, I am sure not going to fuck someone whose post-nut clarity is that I should die.

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      3 months ago

      Are you saying that there is an app where straight men hook up with each other?

  • D_C@sh.itjust.works
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    3 months ago

    Cock and muscles are manly, therefore two (or more) cocks and more muscles are even more manly. It’s just basic maths!!

    • Ioughttamow@fedia.io
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      3 months ago

      The trick is to have enough participants that you can form a circle. If everyone is both a top and a bottom it cancels out. Certified straight

  • Xerxos@lemmy.ml
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    3 months ago

    Some definitively are. A lot of closeted gay homophobes try to hide their feelings by being the loudes opposition.