potoooooooo 🥔@lemmy.world to Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.worldEnglish · 3 months agoMight explain some of my dating misstepslemmy.worldimagemessage-square39linkfedilinkarrow-up1617arrow-down17file-text
arrow-up1610arrow-down1imageMight explain some of my dating misstepslemmy.worldpotoooooooo 🥔@lemmy.world to Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.worldEnglish · 3 months agomessage-square39linkfedilinkfile-text
minus-squarepeopleproblems@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up31·3 months agoMy rule is: if you’re gonna trauma dump, let me do it too. Because then we start off with a good commiseration and we get to see how traumatized we are and if that trauma will prevent or enable chemistry.
minus-squareZC3rr0r@piefed.calinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up15·3 months agoThere’s nothing like honesty as a foundation of a relationship. Also, getting both of your baggage out there is a good way to figure out if you’re compatible.
My rule is: if you’re gonna trauma dump, let me do it too.
Because then we start off with a good commiseration and we get to see how traumatized we are and if that trauma will prevent or enable chemistry.
There’s nothing like honesty as a foundation of a relationship. Also, getting both of your baggage out there is a good way to figure out if you’re compatible.
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