Yes, walking with fishnets at 2AM is a bad idea, for multiple reasons.
But the one reason in particular that stopped me WAS THE COLD WIND 😭.

Not only does my hair get messed up instantly, but also…I’m barely wearing clothes. The fishermen are starving and I’m freezing to death, lol.



I need your honest opinions on this outfit…
In my opinion, it isn’t too flattering, particularly the top. But anyway, it consists of this:

  • The fishnets, my bf bought for me quite a while ago. I do like fishnets, however they make me look…like I’m meeting up with a paying client (in my very vulgar opinion)
  • The skirt is one I got at the mall, at a store called Cropp. There was only one left, and it’s a size S, so I was sure it wouldn’t fit.
    But somehow, through the power of sheer transfem witchcraft, it sits comfortably on my waist and is stopped from falling by my hips. Neat!
  • The top is one I got from Vinted (of course 😆). It was surprisingly cheap and I liked the style. The material is alright, the size is…interesting, and it even has a little chain that makes it look like I’m wearing a necklace!
    The downside is, I can’t wear a bra underneath, because it just looks really bad, so my boobs and nipples just stick straight out. I don’t mind that too much tbh.
    Also, I think the size is wrong…sometimes it hides my belly, sometimes it shows my belly. And also…is this meant to be worn with a skirt? It doesn’t really look like it…
  • The choker is also Vinted, not much to say there. I love chokers!
  • Aaaand, lastly I have some makeup on, which isn’t clothing, but it probably belongs in this list too 😆. I’m not good at makeup, at all, so it’s really simple: primer, foundation, concealer, finishing powder (essential!!!), a little bit of blush, mascara and a subtle but volumizing lipstick.
    I don’t think I did too badly, but there is so much room for improvement, oh my god…

I’m really disappointed I didn’t get to go out. I’ll try again tomorrow, it’s no big deal, it’s just…I spent lots of time getting ready and I was really looking forward to it. Oh well, tomorrow is another day 🙂.

P.S: Also, how do I keep posting elevator posts on injection day?? It’s not on purpose. You probably can’t tell, but there’s a band-aid on my right thigh 😂.

  • AnxiousMiisha@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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    6 days ago

    You’re right…it is like advanced frotting.

    I should have seen this coming from a hundred miles away…but it made me feel really dysphoric.

    It makes sense, doesn’t it? Frotting. This kind of dysphoria. I’m so stupid. Sorry.

    Thanks for the recommendation. I’m sure it works for most people, but I’m not one of them. I’m sorry

    • applebusch (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      1 day ago

      oh no! i hadnt considered that it might be dysphoric for someone :/ sorry it felt bad for you. im pretty vers so it never occurred to me.

      it does sound like youre maybe doing transverse colon enemas, which are uncomfortable and unnecessary a lot of the time, unless you want to go really long or hard. i found this site which is geared towards gay men but still fully applies to us. you can do a shallow enema for a shorter session and it takes way less time to do and doesnt give that empty crampy feeling.

      also dietary improvements can help a ton. i dont do it as much as i should myself, but psyllium husk fiber can make your stool hold together in a way that makes shitting completely clean. like you take a dump and theres literally nothing left on your ass. if you stay on top of that you dont even need to clean out. just wait until after you poop that day to have sex and youll be good, provided you arent going really hard.

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        19 hours ago

        When I do this, I want it to last at least for the whole day…that’s why I do it so thoroughly.

        I also take about 4 teaspoons of psyllium husk a day, which is a lot and it kinda helps. I just still struggle sometimes.

        Thanks for the info tho 💜

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        6 days ago

        My bf is right here and always down to…get down 😂

        It was something new, something I was curious about. It sucks that it didn’t work out.