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    8 months ago

    I can make financial security happen by my own efforts.

    True Love has been more elusive because it’s one order of magnitude more complicated!

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        8 months ago

        I have the empirical and theoretical evidence to prove that wrong.

        Everybody is self made, not everyone will admit it or recognise it.

        Off all the factors that govern our lives, from the circumstances of our birth, to random chance and our daily routines… Nothing in our lives has a bigger impact on who we are as a person than the choices we make.

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            8 months ago

            What a depressing view of people.

            As a therapist working with a philosophy of individual empowerment, and seeing it work every day, I’m glad to have my view of life.

            It’d suck to feel like we’re all just like plastic bags being blown about in the winds of fate!