• GhostFace@lemmy.today
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    I used to game with this tgirl a lot. We were really close and the amount of people that would ask me about what was in her pants was annoying. Like no one would ask her directly, it was always me. I think people sometimes assumed we were together even though she had zero interest in me but that makes it even weirder.

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      It’s always disheartening to hear what these creeps say behind our backs. Still, I’d rather hear about it than be kept in the dark. Thank you for sharing.

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    Inaccurate, they usually say something way more gross, usually something that is very revealing about only them

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    part of me doesn’t like telling people how big, because i want them to want to fuck me for me. but its big, and i find it really funny being bigger than people who care way too much about that.

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      I mean you did comment this on the internet but good job you’re nonchalant and chill about it etc

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      Stupid question: are we talking about the penis of a transman? Is it actually generally bigger than the average cisman’s? I just assumed the surgery could not achieve that, but I don’t actually know anything about the surgery.

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        Phalloplasty followed by medical tattooing can result in some spectacularly realistic (and decently sized) penii.

        The sugery is brutal though, don’t go looking this up if you’re not ready to see extreme gore.

        In summary though, flesh is taken from the forearm or the back of the thigh and grafted over (usually) a flexible rod (the other option is a flaccid inflatable, with the pump concealed in a bollock) on the mons pubis, to create the penis. Optionally plumbing can slso be linked up, so one can stand to piss, and balls can be inserted. Along with all that, surgically closing the vulva/vaginal canal is also an option too.

        I spent way too much time looking into this at one point. Things may have changed a bit since then when it come to phallo, but I doubt much.

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          i have so many questions, like, some of my favorite memories are being traumatized walking in on my mother watching the public access surgery show. i want to talk shop with one of the surgeons basically some of the tools they can use are really cool. not osteo though, they just use hammers.

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        You’re literally doing the thing in the meme right now. I can’t believe you’re getting replies.

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          I hope I haven’t offended anyone. I’m coming from a place of wanting to learn. I support trans rights.

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            I’m just really sick of hearing cis people ask about trans people’s dicks. I’d almost rather if you asked chat gpt and got a hallucination. It does not matter if you are able to visualize what a trans persons dick looks like. There is just no way you’d ever need that information.

      • Chloé 🥕@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        iirc, penile inversion vaginoplasty (which i think is the most common technique of vaginoplasty?) takes penile tissue to create a neovagina. so, the more penile tissue you have, the better your results are likely to be.

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          The more tissue there is, the more depth that can ultimately be created per standard penile inversion. I know a handful of women who have gone through the process, those with smaller initial material ultimately went for zero-depth vaginoplasties because creating a sufficient vaginal canal would require a more involved surgery. Fortunately the ones who received the zero-depth are both lesbians so penetration wasn’t as significant of a desire for them as just getting rid of the nope rope.

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          I feel the same way about circumcision as I do about surgery, sounds owchie owwie.

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            i mean, they have managed to figure out the owchie owwie part. they don’t do that anymore, but they know how to.

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    NGL I always wonder how big it is too, it wouldn’t make any difference if I wanted to fuck you or not, but I still wonder.

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        Probably, everyone is weird. But why should you care? Maybe you’re ACE, maybe you just don’t give a fuck, maybe a billion other reasons. None of it matters if you are happy.

        (I hope you are happy)

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      When I wonder stuff like that I end up saying “You know what, it’s their business if they cut it or kept it”

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            I had a partner that kept their testes in a jar after her orchiectomy. Very good ice breaker lmao

            Since the penile tissue is typically used for bottom surgey, it wouldnt really be possible to “keep” like that. Its more of a rearrangement than a cutting off.

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        Oh sure its none on my business at all which is why I never ask. But I’d be lying if I said I didn’t wonder or I wouldn’t look if offered.

        I feel like the only time it would be my business at all is if they were a romantic partner but I’m pretty sure I wouldn’t have to wonder if that were the case.

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      Note the red cap. Hateful chasers arent to be empathized with. Racists often find people of color attractive sexually. The amount of slave owners that sexually abused slaves is innumerable.

      Sexual attraction isn’t a default compliment

            • Where joke

              No really, please explain the joke.

              Someone telling me they want to jack off whole thinking about me, especially someone I don’t know well, is nasty. Not in any way positive or complimentary.

              Chasers don’t deserve any positive interaction.

              I also don’t see any hostile reply, just someone trying to backdpeddal after their comment wasn’t as funny when other people see it.

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                The joke is they’re too cowardly to actually interact with us but they really want to it’s fine to disagree it amused me

              • The comic is a joke is making fun of chasers. It’s fine to make fun of chasers and laugh about the awful experiences we have.

                The person replied with a yourjokebutworse and people got mad because the delivery was so bad and there were no /j or /s indicators to make it clear it was even trying to be a joke.

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                That doesn’t mean it can’t be funny you know being miserable isn’t a virtue right it doesn’t make the pain go away nobody pa very few people pay you for it

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              No offense but I think the joke itself was a little clunky and awkwardly delivered. It just didn’t really land well for some people.

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      Big difference between being asked if you want to do something and saying no as opposed to volunteering that you don’t want to do something when nobody asked.

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      “It” in this case being an actual human being. If he wanted to masturbate to the vague concept of a woman with a penis he could give her any size dick he fancies without being creepy and transphobic to real people.

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      Another part of maturity is letting others live their lives without confronting them on the street like that moron.

      (Or at the bathroom door. Trans people aren’t out there with signs protesting cishets, calling them disgusting, or beating them up for existing.)

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        Can we admit privately that they’re disgusting and their culture is a fucking Miyazaki swamp even if we’re too polite to say

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          I’m cishet myself, mom and friend of trans people. And the answer is yes. But also, be careful because sometimes you don’t know when “we” includes one of “them.” I happen to agree anyway, but many don’t.