• PM_ME_VINTAGE_30S [he/him]@lemmy.sdf.org
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    14 hours ago

    Go to college. Take 1 class.

    I’m finishing my third degree this semester lol.

    Find a community. Find a different one. Or another different one. Find people you like who like you.

    Okay but first I need to get money to eat, sleep, exist, etc. without being harassed by the cops, because all resources are paywalled.

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        14 hours ago

        Jesus. What good are free communities if they are forced to spend their waking hours trying to earn money to exist?

        Time is a commodity. Energy is a commodity. Going places and meeting people costs time and energy they don’t have to spend.

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            10 hours ago

            In an equitable world, where we had either some form of UBI or shared the means of production and had leisure time to enjoy, it wouldn’t be a thing. Spend time at home recharging, go outside and meet people. Go online and meet people. Join community events and do things that interest you and relationships will naturally bloom as a result.

            Since we live in Hell? I have no idea. You tell me.